The Journey to Authenticity class that I’m taking continues. We’ve worked to discover some of our current gifts, focusing heavily on the spiritual. But what I’ve learned from my own work and the work of others is that we know these gifts; they are the qualities we admire in others, everything we hope to be — that is us, too . . . already . . . in this very moment.
The hurdle, of course, is whether or not we will accept the gifts we are given, whether we will receive our gift and then use it to give to others. Perhaps this presents two hurdles (i.e. 1- accept the gift of being a writer; 2- write and share it with others). We may not want to accept the responsibility that comes with claiming a gift. We don’t want to make our life more difficult than it already is. Chances are, we’re too busy to commit to yet another something-or-other. Believe me, I know.
But do we really want to become stagnant? Does it make you happy to watch reality t.v., eat your processed, refined, pre-made meals? Are you just hoping that your kids turn out better than you?
Wake up, my friend. Now is not the time to be waiting.
We think we’re too busy, but unless all our time is taken up doing good for others, using our talents to the best of our ability, we’re not busy with the right things. Re-evaluate. Find your center. Start over if you need to.
Give yourself time, though; I’m talking years, if necessary. Because this process takes time, you can’t wait until you feel like it. It won’t get easier. Take baby steps. Keep your center. Find a companion (or a few) to hold you accountable, to encourage you. You may be surprised. I know I am.
Happiness is an ever-elusive something we say we want. It’s just a word, though. For me, happiness is that feeling in a moment when I know I’m in the right place, when my soul seems to sing from within and shine without. Often, we have to work for these moments. We have to keep growing, keep learning, keep the flow moving through us so that we don’t become stagnant.
Notice your gifts. Honor them. Claim them. Use them. And with all your heart, Trust, mindfully enjoying all the moments of happiness along the way.